Who am I?
This is a very good question. Who am I?
And who are you?
This was the very first
sentence asked in a Norwegian novel by the name of "Sophie's World".
Yes, you may answer with your name, the school you study at, where you
live, which country you come from, or which company you work at. But do
these define who you really are? Do you really know who you really are?
In fact, I could answer this question very technically if I wanted to, but I choose to be honest with myself.
I choose to tell you the truth.
I don't know.
In fact I am still in the process of finding out more about myself.
Sometimes the best way
to understand yourself is to write a story. Not just any story. Not just
an autobiography of yourself. That's too easy. Not just a love story or
the story of your success or failure. Anybody can write that.
But writing something
that's in your heart. Something that you can't even easily share with
others even if you wanted to. That is not easy.
That is because our human heart is not easy to understand. In fact, it's very complicated.
What we crave. What we value. What we would do in certain situations. Sometimes we won't know unless we are put to the test.
The thoughts that go
through our mind when certain things happen to us. The thoughts that go
through our mind when we are bullied. The thoughts that go through our
mind when we are in love with someone who does not love you back. The
thoughts that go through our mind whenever we are attracted to a person
we are not allowed to pursue.
Dirty? Forbidden? Disgusting?
These
are our thoughts. They make up our inner world. Because they may be
pointing to something that others would not be able to accept if they
got to know about it, is it evil? Won't the people around you laugh and
mock you for being attracted to someone you shouldn't even be thinking
of? Your friend's wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend? Your teacher? Your
boss's daughter? Your boss who's a married man? The consequences of
acting on your desires is very real. Condemnation by society.
Condemnation by your family and friends. Removal from the organization.
Imprisonment or even death. It varies from country to country, era to
era.
But
what if you wrote out your desires and changed the names of everyone
that you liked. What if just by the virtue of the pen, you are able to
change the circumstances that allow you and her to be together, even if
it is for a while without needing to answer to anybody or accept any
punishment for it. Let's say you are a guy who like this particular
girl, but you can never have her because she already has a boyfriend and
they are about to get married. What if you can rewrite their story?
What if you can merge with the body and consciousness of her boyfriend
for a day, and enjoy a night with her, experiencing everything he
experienced? What if that guy who is her boyfriend, is actually your
long-lost personality, or a part of you that was split away from you at
your birth or in your past life? What if the girl who you are attracted
to, is the long-lost fragment of the soul/personality of your actual
future girlfriend? What if your attraction to this girl is because you
are being attracted to a fragment of the actual future love of your life
whom you haven't met?
There was this girl whom I knew on Facebook who mentioned this:
"He has his eyes on her and every other girl, but all she wants is for him to have eyes for her only"
I mentioned this.
"Don't worry. The other girls are just your clones, but you are the original."
So basically even if he
sleeps with them, he is not cheating on her, because he is still
sleeping with her, the love of his life. Those "clones" that he slept
with were still "her", except that they were part of her and shared the
same consciousness with her. So no matter how many he slept with, he was
still technically "faithful" to her.
This is the concept
that I have been exploring. How do we have all the girls (guys if you
are a girl) that we want while being faithful to one?
It is to become a very special being which has the ability to do so.
This being, in my story, is called a "novagel".
I am a human being, but
in this story, I am a "novagel". All the girls I was attracted to were
actually the same person as the love of my life. All the guys whom my
lover was attracted to were actually the same as me? They were the lost
fragments of my soul who have developed minds and bodies of their own,
and uniting with these "fragments" would transform me into a better me? A
new me with the combined positive traits of these other personalities.
Similarly for her, whereby she will become a more beautiful girl after
merging with the other girls. Those other girls are actually her, so
being attracted to these other girls was the same as being attracted to
her. So technically, even though I have a roving eye, I am still
faithful.
This is the ability, and privilege of the novagel.
With great power comes
responsibility. They are not only young, but also immortal. They have
magical powers and they have the power to fight powerful demons that
plague mankind and cause suffering to the human world.
In fact, as I write and
develop this concept in my mind, I am starting to believe that they
actually exist. I mean, it could very be that I am a novagel myself, had
made love with my novagel princess and all the other girls who turned
out to be her "clones" who share the same consciousness as her. Except
that some major event has made me forget all about it and cause me to
foolishly continue living my life as a mediocre human being, living from
day to day, having a routine day job and constantly waiting for
weekends every week and holidays every year.
If
that is the case, my mission is to write this story and share this with
the world. So that I can remember who I am, regain my powers, reunite
with my lover, and get out of this miserable mundane ritual of daily
routines and embark once again on an adventure, together with her,
fearing nothing, without a care in the world.
If
you wish to see me have my wish fulfilled, please do me a favor. Read
the first few chapters of my story, and buy the whole book to finish it
(I'm sure you'll like it, so I don't have to ask you to buy it if you
like it). Don't think of it as a story. Think of it as a spell. A spell
to help you remember who you really are. A spell to help you rekindle
your passion for whatever or whoever you used to love. Reading it would
be therapeutic to you if you are in emotional pain. This story will be
your confidant. You are reading this with me to help me find my
happiness, and find your own happiness.
This story, Desire Revolution, is my gift to you.
Without further ado, let the adventure begin.
Jona
P.S.: When I refer to
sleeping with multiple partners who turn out to be the clones of your
significant other, this is just a fantasy scenario. Please do not
confuse this with reality and actually go all out and sleep around
thinking it is alright to do so just because you became a novagel. No.
You are not a novagel. You are just an ordinary human being. The
multiple partners you may engage in a sexual relationship with are
totally different individuals and do not constitute any physical or
psychological extension or fragment of your significant other (in other
words, they are not the inferior clones of your significant other and do
not use that to justify cheating). I do not condone cheating and I will
not be held responsible for any breakups of any relationships or
marriages, or crimes of passion and jealousy that may be the result of
cheating on your partner after reading this blog post or my story, read
either in full or in part. Thank you.
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